There is no rule, but common ranges are: partner $50 to $150 or more, parents and siblings $25 to $100, close friends $20 to $50, coworkers $10 to $25, teachers and service providers $10 to $25, and kids in the family $20 to $50. Spend what fits your budget. Thoughtfulness matters more than the number.
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Common ranges by relationship
Partner: $50 to $150 or more. Parents and siblings: $25 to $100. Close friends: $20 to $50. Coworkers and Secret Santa: $10 to $25. Teachers, daycare and service providers: $10 to $25. Nieces, nephews and kids in the family: $20 to $50.
How to set your budget
Add up everyone on your list first, then divide your total. Set limits with family and friend groups early, and consider drawing names.
When money is tight
Homemade gifts, experiences and handwritten notes are always appropriate.
Questions people ask
How much should you spend on a coworker gift?
Usually $10 to $25, or whatever limit your office sets.
How much should you spend on your partner?
It varies widely. Many couples spend $50 to $150 or more, and a thoughtful gift matters more than the amount.
Is it rude to spend less than someone else?
No. Gifts are not a transaction. A thoughtful, personal gift at any price is appropriate.